[firefairy]

Hello everyone,

I have had 3 sexual partners, all long term (lived with or years of dating). When I found my ex partner (father to my 2 year old son) had been having an afair I was advised to get STI tests. Which were ALL CLEAR. Its taken months to rebuild my life and now I've been told I have cervical cancer. I rang my mum in tears and was told "serves you right for sleeping around". I have been dating for 8 years, my MUM encouraged me to loose my vaginity to my first boyfriend who I nearly went on to marry. How can she say this?

I have looked at countless sites and they all say "casual sexual partners, having sex young, having many sexual partners. Is 3 many? Also that its caused by an STI, yet I tested negative to all after my ex partners afair.

How has this happened? I never looked into this until I found out it effected me.

I am 24, a single mum of a 2 year old boy who is my life now. His dad has chosen his other woman and her son over his own. I can't talk to anyone because I now feel like a whore. I'm so scared,