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Post a new topicby livingwith on Tue Apr 14, 2009 1:04 pm

When I look back upon my bygone days Of those wonderful hard erection,and ejaculations that would make any man proud. Oh! Yes, We men had ,and still do have, a penile fixation. Well, After all we are our penises and our penises are us,and if they work so do we. There are many reasons for ED, as most men discover,if they are concerned about why it won’t stand-up or it fades away too soon before the intercourse can be completed. Haven’t seen a good Urologist as of yet, guess that goes...Read the full article
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Re: ED And Me

Post a new topicby ste 21 on Wed Apr 15, 2009 6:58 am

WELL WRITTEN MY FRIEND , REALLY L;IFTED MY SPIRITS ,I MAY WELL SHJ=H0W MY WIFE THIS LOVELY PIECE THAT YOU PENNED, I READ WITH MUCH SADNESS APIECE WRUTTEN BY AN UNHAPPY WIFE OF A SUFFERER SHE WAS A REAL NASTY PIECE OF WORK REALLY BROUGHT MEDOWN UNLIKE YOUR BEAUTIFUIL; ROUSING PIECE .
ONCE AGAIN THANH YOU , PSD sorry i left the caps lock on .
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Re: ED And Me

Post a new topicby learningaboutT on Sun Apr 19, 2009 12:49 pm

Wow, that sounds like you are learning a lot about sensuality. I WISH I could get my husband to eat at the Y. He is dead set against it, thinks it's disgusting (despite the fact that I regularly give him oral sex - apparently that's not disgusting to him).

I keep it clean, nicely trimmed, and regardless, he has no interest in showing me that kind of love. I don't want to force him to do something he doesn't want to do, but I wish he at least wanted to do it. I have told him that it is the best way to bring me to climax... doesn't matter, he won't try it.

He just wants to do the same old, same old and expects me to orgasm after about 2 or 3 minutes... which doesn't happen so there are times I do fake it because I know he isn't going to touch me for the 20 or 30 minutes I really need. I am not trying to be selfish, my body just isn't going to orgasm after 2 or 3 minutes, it isn't the same as a man's body. We've talked about that, but he still does the same actions and after 2 or 3 minutes will say "my hand is tired" or will ask expectantly if I am almost there.

Guys, if you want a woman to fake her orgasms just keep asking her if she is almost there after a few short minutes of touching. Most women will fake it at that point because it's obvious that your ego boost (not her true PLEASURE) is your goal.

I strayed from the topic a bit...
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Re: ED And Me

Post a new topicby jmchughes15 on Tue Sep 01, 2009 4:23 pm

Your response did lift my spirits a bit, but as my husband absolutely loves the "Y" and does it well I might ad. For that matter guys, I love to give my husband oral pleasure also. He will only do it when he feels like having sex; maybe once a month because of the ED. He ignores and buries the problem because he does not want to deal with the issue. So I am still left hanging out to dry. The ED has become a "cock-blocker" and his own worst nightmare. He will do anything and everything to avoid being put into a position of having sex or making love whichever is the more politically correct way to state it. Here I am dying to please him and wanting to be pleased and I get zero response. Wow, it is so easy to get distracted and off on a tangent. The lack there of of sex causes a lot of problems.
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