[hharley]

I am 58 years old about 80 pounds over weight and have no medical problems/
About 2 years ago I noticed a decrease in my sexual desire,erretions ,not able to keep one ,
and not as hard as it use to be.
I have tryed viagra and other meds to really not much difference except headache.
I,m not on any meds......and its causeing some small problems with spouse in her not
believing i find her desireable as much as i use to..I have explained to her thats not the
problem and am trying to find an answer....I need help.......in what dirrection to go
and what to try? any advice?

[olympian86]

hharley, i am in the same boat. the problem with me and my gal is were have never been on the same sheet of music. sounds as if you spouse is still in the game so to speak. vist your doc or PA as soon as possible. some organic issues could be at stake. bring the spouse if she will come along so that you can learn together.

I got a new batch of drugs and have to wait for the wife to wanna try it again, with a buzz word this time to let me know her intentions. her enthusiasm is low right now could be another year before i get the opportunity again. good luck hharley, the trick is see your health care provider right away and all three of you come up with a plan. good luck

[highopes]

Hey, I just joined the discussion...I have been reading the discussion topic to see which one most fit my situation and yours caught my eye. I have also bee experiencing the same problem for about 2 yrs as well...we are also the same age! Anyway, my libido just up and went!!! I have tried all the well know meds Cealis, Viagra etc. Nothing! and I getting very, very frustrated and seek help. I have not gone to a specialist or anything like that, I thought by seeking out others first that they may have the hepl or know what's up and can assist me more directly and save some expense.

My desire has just left me hanging. I we to get busy but the erection is only half assed and doesn't last at all even when I take the enhancers. I do have high blood pressure and take meds for that but come on...this can't be the end just because I've gotten older?

[merrilee]

What about a change in diet? The Paleo diet helped my spouse.