Female Sexual Dysfunction

[livingwith]

I have experienced serious diffuculties in reaching organism. I avoid my friends when their share their sexual life because what they say about their libido. I hv very low interest in sex, no sexual desire but no pains during intercourse. I have consulted a pyschrist but with no improvement. To make the mattter worse I have not shared with my partner about what I go through because I pretend to be on move during the act. I was told sex is physology I try to put my mind and concentrate but all in...Read the full article

[TREATURIGHT]

Hello.. I am a MAN and this is my view..
I read your story and know exactly what your missing, It's a sad thing for you to be having sex just to please your partner's needs. To me, that's like consensual rape, I mean, you don't want it but you let someone else use your body for their pleasure.. Great for him but BAD for you, HE won't change because he get's what he needs and generally that's all that matters according to most of us MEN.

So what are you MISSING ?? Well, your missing 1. The DESIRE, 2. The FANTASY, 3. The LOCATION, 4. The SITUATION, 5. The CARESS, 6. The PASSION, and most of all 7. The FOOD of LOVE (experiences with the person non-sexual but fun memories)

Don't get me wrong, I'm no LOVE GURU, or psychologist, but from experience if you have at least 5 of those in the list above, your probably naked and ready for action.

I want to tell you one more thing before I leave you, DO NOT ALLOW anymore sexual invasions from your partner and tell him WHY.. If you allow this to carry on, it will make you BITTER, and you will become hateful and get old and die alone.. Do you want that ?
YOU need someone to shower you with surprises and little gifts of things that he knows you like, he then needs to take you out somewhere Ski-ing or a walk in the woods, then a meal later and maybe a bottle of wine by the fire with something like strawberrys and whipping cream for you to play with.. he should be leading the way towards finding your sensual spots, he should ask to read your palm, just so he can hold your hand and gently stroke it, this should arouse you slightly.. then maybe lean forward and whisper into your ear about how beautiful you look tonight, blowing gently as he speaks. He should then kiss you gently on the lips, stroking your arm up towards your elbow with his fingertips as he does. Sex should never be rushed, it should be WANTED at the right time by both participants. If this has never happened to you, then I advise you to find someone who is prepared to make the effort to AROUSE YOU FIRST... Good luck with this and remember guys WANT YOU so make them WORK for it.
Roy x