Female Sexual Dysfunction

[Masquerade]

Hi everyone...

So, tonight is the first time I've ever actually done anything beyond worry about my lack of libido. I've joined here in the hope of getting help, advice, anything really, and finding people who are in the same position as me... Because right now, it feels like I'm the only one in the world who isn't interested in sex whatsoever. I feel like a freak.

I'm 19 - I thought I was too young to suffer from sexual dysfunction? I don't know how rare it is at my age. To be honest, I don't know anything about it. I came off a course of anti-depressants four months ago, and noticed a sharp decrease in my sex drive since then.

I have no interest in sex. I can't make myself become interested, I don't find myself wanting it. And when it comes to it, I feel almost nothing most of the time. And the few, rare times that I do feel something... it disappears very suddenly halfway through. I get halfway through, and find myself just wanting him to hurry up and finish.

I'm in a long-term, loving relationship, and my boyfriend is trying to understand as best he can - it's putting a strain on both of us, though, and I miss the intimacy of actually enjoying sex, and wanting it more than once a month.

Sometimes, it feels like there's too much pressure down there, and hurts a bit. I don't know if this is connected.

Please, please, please help me, somehow?

[berryb]

Hey there, honestly I feel like I could reply to almost all of the posts in this forum right now, I recently bought a book from this website -> [moderator note: website address has been removed]. It teaches all natural ways to cure most female sexual dysfunctions, it is perfectly normal to have desire disorder at such a young age, and the book has a very small chapter on desire disorder, but basically you need to use lubrication and explore different sexual activities, whether it be adult videos, masturbation, sex toys, etc. Cures for Females with Sexual Dysfunctions, does not cover too much on desire disorder, however it does teach some excercises that I this would be beneficial to anyone with a desire disorder!

- Nicole

[fchopin42]

Hi, I'm new too. I have a similar situation. I am 29 and have no desire whatsoever... I am married (and have been for almost 8 years). My libido has gone "down" ever over the last 8 years. It's horrible. My husband used to be patient but now he just feels hurt and angry that I'm not interested. When we are intimate it usually causes me a great deal of pain. I've been to my doctor but he has no answers and has basically said I will have to live with this. It's miserable. I feel like a failure and less of a woman. I really wish I could enjoy sex and want my husband...

anyway, you aren't alone. I haven't read through any other posts yet but hopefully you and I both can find some answers or at least others who can relate.

Sincerely,
Lisa

[berryb]

Hey there, what you need to do is increase your libido, Im sure you have already figured that out but there is a book which you can download that I think will definitely help you if you follow the simple steps outlined in it, it's at [moderator note: website address has been removed]. Have a look, it helped me overcome my sexual dysfunction, I had noticed a difference in less than a month of purchasing it!

Good Luck!

[Sarafina]

give your self and you system some time to rid get rid of all the medication that has built up. also may I suggest that you make a appointment with your GYN, and have her check your hormone levels, could be somethings off and if so , a blood test will show your GYN what the trouble is and she can get you back on track. Also , sounds to me as though you need a complete internal exam, since you said you don't feel right down there. Maybe your body is trying to tell you something isn't right. And I'm a big believer in listening to what your body is telling you. If you don't feel right down below get yourself to the GYN ASAP! don't hem a haw about it. I learned that one the hard way! too bad a lot of us women learn that way. Its great that you feel loved by your man and he is standing by you. That's a real man! in the mean time you both can still find pleasure in just being together and sharing your thought and dreams.