Female Sexual Dysfunction

[Guest]

I am in what I would like to think is a lasting relationship.. I am 28 yrs. old and have a problem with wanting sex to much, masterbation does help at times but, also just makes me depressed afterwards. My partner does not require as much sexual attention as I feel that I want "all the time.." I want to spare our relationship because we are in love.. I was wondering if anyone knows of an over the counter medicine that can be taken to settle my over active hormones??? Though some might say she is the one with the problem I am the one that really needs help.. This has caused me so much depression and anxiety in the past I would like to hear any serious inquiries to help..
"All help is greatly appreciated."

[Guest]

There is no effective over-the-counter medication for being "over-sexed". My research also indicates that this is not a hormonal problem as you might think, but rather an emotional and/or psychological factor. You may need to seek help from a sex therapist, psychiatrist or psychologist who can look into this for you.
[quote] I am in what I would like to think is a lasting relationship. ... [/quote]

[Guest]

I agree. While hormones might be a factor, they are not that big a factor to explain your frequent need for sex. It may take a sex therapist to work through your desires and to help you learn to better control them.
[quote] There is no effective over-the-counter medication for being "over-sexed". My research also indicates that this is not a hormonal problem as you might think, but rather an emotional and/or psychological factor... [/quote]

[Guest]

Hi, just wanted to let you know that you are not alone.
I'm 27, and married.
I feel the same way, my wife doesn't have the same appetite for sex as I do. For her, somewhere around once or twice a month is okay, sometimes more, sometimes less. So I do just like you, I masterbate at times. And feel terrible afterwards.

I love her just as much anyway and of course she loves me just as much even if she doesnt "want me" all the time.
Since you wrote this question on this forum I understand that you love her very much.

Maybe it would help to talk about it.
I hope everything works out for you.
/Peter
[quote] I am in what I would like to think is a lasting relationship. ... [/quote]

[hoather]

I, a woman, have the same problem. My boyfriend is prepared to leave me if I don't stop wanting so much sex. So I try and hide my feelings and urges because I really do love him. What he doesnt understand is that is the reason I am totally depressed most of the time and cant talk to him about it. He thinks that this urge, as he calls it, will let me go around with other men as I can't always control it. But I won't, I want his body! I just look at him and I want it! I am in tears most of the time! I have also been to a sex theropist, but the exercises she has given me does not help control what my body needs. And the S*** she spoke of that it is because of a childhood experience make me upset and I decided not to go see her again! Maybe I should request the injections they give to pedofiles? If it will help me keep the only person in my life that I love and need! There must be help out there somewhere! Tired of hiding or waiting for my boyfriend to leave so that I can masturbate! Please help! I cant loose him!