[livingwith]

I am 15 and i want to be pregnant very much. I know everything i will have to give up in order to make room in my life for a new one. I have thought about it since i have turned 14 and it scares me sometimes how much i want a baby. I think you all are so lucky to be blessed with another life. I still plan on finishing high school and going to college, but i will have to put my goals on hold for a while.
My mother would help me I know but i want my baby to my responsibility. I want someone to lo...Read the full article

[Lyricmylife]

Please listen to me. I was pregnant at the age 15 and just gave birth to a beautiful baby boy now named Lyric Matthew. Of course you want someone to love you, and you think that you can provide a good life for your child. But really you cant. I do what I have to do to get what my son wants and needs. I have no time for myself, I get no sleep, I go to school full time, I have two night classes and through the rest of the week I work my butt of at Mc Donalds. At 15 I couldn't get a job so I did all that I could to make money. Please, please, please, take my advice. Wait till you can live on your own, afford to take care of yourself and that baby. You can do it, I know, anyone can be a mother. But not everyone can be a great mother. If you need someone to talk feel free to e mail me at [moderator note: e-mail address has been removed]. Finish school, find a stable job, and make something of yourself. Learn to love youself before you find a child to love you.

[teachpregteens]

I know that you believe your heart is in the right place, but having a baby will not create a person to love you back. You will undoubtedly love your baby unconditionally but your baby will love what you do for him. Babies are like any other creature they are built for survival and survival is their number one goal. You, at fifteen cannot possibly provide all the things that a baby or child will want and need. That baby will only be able to love what you do for him until he reaches maturity. Wait until you can afford all the luxieries and comforts that should come with being a new mom. Until then kiddo focus on yourself. You are in the most free time of your life; live it and love it. There is a time and place for everthing; this is your time to be child not have a child. I can also tell you that if you do not sucessfully go through each phase of your life you will not be able to teach and train your child as he goes through each phase of his life.

[jaelisa3]

its not easy. I havent had a baby, but trust me i know. im 16 years old, and i got pregnant. unfortunatley my parents made me have an abortion. I knew i wasnt ready for a baby, but i still didnt want to kill it. I was about 5 1/2 months when i had the procedure done, and its very painful, i was to far along so i had to give birth and im sure you being young thats nothing you want to expericnce,. i used the same excuse your using that you want someone to love you back. but being a teen mother isnt something anyone should be proud of. you've got your whole life ahead of you. you can always have a baby, but now just isnt the time. your still a baby yourself, and when your all grown up and can provid the babies wants and needs, then you decide if your ready. live your life now with freedom, because once you have a baby, adult hood comes. just listen to the advise and wait. and if you are having sex be positve and protect yourself.