Teen Pregnancy

[Stepmom71]

Since my last post, my step daughter has won the battle of keeping the baby. She is going to live with her mother and stepdad, which in fact makes me feel relieved. I wont be the one to take care of a baby, it will be her mother, as it should be.

She still has no clue what she is getting herself into, guess she'll figure it out soon.

[watow_babe]

since she has already won the battle, i recomend you let go of the past arguments and help her. yes, she may not be thinking clearly, but think that it partly isnt her fault. right now if she is going to have this baby she just needs all the care, love, and support she can receive. you do not want her to get depresses or even suicidal, i hope, which is likely to happen you all keep making her feel she is alone in this.
this boy does not seem very mature, so be prepared to support her if he leaves.

best of luck, xo

[gigibabii1]

thats nt right im 14 and pregnant so wat would u do with me leave me hanging?

[Stepmom71]

No, I wouldnt leave you "hanging" and I havent left my step-daughter hanging either. She and the baby have love and support from both families. It still doesnt make it right to have unprotected sex and at such a young age... do you think about the consequences of your actions? It doesnt just affect you and the boy you've slept with, it involves your entire family and your future. I'm sure you have dreams and goals for your life... a baby will affect this, it's not impossible to achieve your goals... it will just take longer with your new responsibility.

What my step-daughter got herself into made me angry and I wrote a post still angry... it wasn't right, but I had to vent, and some people who have responded to this post have helped me cope with it.

I hope my words dont land on "deaf" ears... think about what you do before you do it.